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阿綾女士两年前,因工作上的需要,上網尋找相关資料時,不知怎麼的,網路巧遇吾。據她所說,她一見到吾,她就認定吾,是她要找的師父。吾聽了心中並沒有漣漪,反倒是有個笑話,悠然而生。甲君對乙君說: 我俩可算是患難之交啊!乙君嘆了一聲便說:是啊!從認識你的那天起,我一直患難到現在。哈......。其实啊!很多時後,怨親債主就是這樣出現的。大家要留神关注哦!哈......。
阿綾女士是有其敏銳的。她特别在其午餐時間,致電於吾,爲的就是要問吾,她是否就是吾短文中,那位不是屬蛇,可卻會纏人的人。吾囘她,她衹是其中一位。午後閒情這句話,似乎有其根據。哈......。好啦!言帰正傳。不是每個人的笑穴,都是同一個力道就能點着的。有一天的黃昏時刻,她在綫上與吾聊得蠻久的。記得是聊她家的風水,後來是聊她人生重大的抉擇。她黯然的嘆道,一切來得太快了。
吾,玳瑚師父,告訴她的同時,也告訴大家。我們的生命中,有很多的事情,都是突如其來的。所以,我們天天都要學習,去面對及處理,這些突發事件啊!重奌就在我們的心力。心力的增強,一般的人認爲,人衹要多經歷風浪就可。這話乍聽之下,彷彿是高見。其实並不然。就好比嬰孩,她他剛從娘胎出來,就已哭得活來死去,如何再經風浪?
眞正的凖備功夫要做的是,两千六百多年前,咱們偉大超勝的佛陀,南無本師釋迦牟尼佛,所提倡的正禪定是也。心力越強的人,越是能泰山崩於前,而面無改色啊!願大家盡早做好這凖備功夫,那就生死皆無惧了。生命中的突變情況,也根本奈何不了我們。
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Two years ago, because of work requirements, Mdm Ah Ling took to the internet to search for relevant data, and somehow she found me online. According to her, the moment she saw me, she knew I was the Master she was looking for. I didn't felt any ripple of emotion in my heart when I heard it, but instead thought of a joke: Mr A spoke to Mr B: "We are considered friends in adversity!" Mr B sighed and said, "Yes! From the day I know you, I have been in adversity till now..."
Ha...Actually, many times, this is how karmic creditors appear in our lives. Everyone, please pay attention to your surroundings! Ha...
Mdm Ah Ling was rather acute. She called me during her lunchtime, just to ask me, if she was the person I wrote about in one short post - the person who was not of the snake zodiac sign yet rather good at pestering people. I replied her that she was one of them. The Chinese phrase "午後閒情" (leisure in the afternoon) seemed to have its basis. Ha...Okay! Back to the topic. Not every one will laugh at the same joke.
One evening, she was talking to me on the phone for quite a while. At first, we were talking about her home Feng Shui, then we chatted about an important decision she had to face in her life. She quietly sighed and said, it all happened too fast.
I, Master Dai Hu, want to tell her and everyone here, that there will be many sudden circumstances that will come up in your lives. Therefore, we ought to practice on a daily basis to face and deal with these happenings. The important factor here is our mental endurance, our heart strength. Many thought that one's heart strength can be built up by going through many crisis in life. This may sound like words of wisdom to many at first, but I do not think so.
Take a newborn infant for example. This baby cries so hard upon birth, how do you expect him to face the crisis in life? The real secret lies in the true meditative stillness as expounded 2600 years ago by the Great Sage, Namo Sakyamuni Buddha. The stronger your heart strength is, the calmer you will be, even when faced with the collapsing of the Tai Mountain! I hope everyone prepare themselves with this great skill, so that when death comes, you will be fearless in the face of death. No matter what sudden situation life throws at you, it can never do anything to you.